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Gail Sheehy talks with the Heath Family about what its like to be part of the Sandwich Generation.

Gail’s book Passages in Caregiving – Turning Chaos Into Confidence walks you through the caregivers emotional journey, stage by stage, showing caregivers how to outwit the healthcare system and keep a loved one safe and satisfied, without sacrificing their own health and happiness.

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Relationships between elder and younger members of a family can be strained and positive and negative in nature, even when affection is shared. A new study from the Journal of Marriage and Family finds that long-term caretaking duties puts further strain on adult parent-child relationships.

Authors of the first international comparative study of its kind, analyzed levels of affection and conflict among more than 2,600 parents and children in six developed nations: England, Germany, Israel, Norway, Spain and the U.S. They found that certain nations have developed prevalent, acceptable ways of behaving towards their elders, but that long-term interdependence and heavy care-taking responsibility introduces a major challenge to the relationship. [continue reading…]