Sex

The makings of a sex addict

A study of so-called sex addiction and its impact on relationships has found that those with problematic sexual behaviour are more likely to feel threatened by or anxious about intimate relationships.

The study, the first of its kind in New Zealand, was conducted this year as part of an honours project by clinical psychology student Karen Faisandier, with assistance from practising clinical psychologist Robyn Salisbury and academic specialist Dr Joanne Taylor.

More than 880 adults agreed to participate in an anonymous on-line questionnaire about their sexual orientation, preferences and activities and their feelings about the impacts of these on them and their relationships with others. Questions included whether they engaged in online sex, prostitution, sex that made them feel degraded or put them at risk of harm, sex with multiple partners or public indecency. They were also asked about alcohol and drug use, relationship experiences and feelings about themselves.

Sex addiction, a condition often associated with the scandals surrounding celebrity entertainers and sportsmen, is described in academic terms as one of a range of out of control sexual behaviours (OOCSB) that include impulsive or compulsive sexual thoughts, feelings and actions. [continue reading…]

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In the study published today among 75 to 85 year olds, four out of 10 men and two out of 10 women are still having sex – or at least are claiming to!

Sexual activity, good quality sexual life, and interest in sex were higher for men than for women and this gender gap widens with age. Sexual activity, quality of sexual life, and interest in sex were positively associated with health in middle age and later life. [continue reading…]

Why do you think men pay for sex?

red-shoeWhy do you think men pay for sex? The Guardian’s Julie Bindel reports on the research project Men who buy sex . Seven hundred men were interviewed for the project, which aimed to find out why men buy sex.

I don’t get anything out of sex with prostitutes except for a bad feeling,” says Ben. An apparently average, thirtysomething, middle-class man, Ben had taken an extended lunchbreak from his job in advertising to talk about his experiences of buying sex. Shy and slightly nervous, he told me, “I am hoping that talking about it might help me work out why I do it.” link to read the full article

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Source: The Guardian